FAQ: Family & Friends

The most important things are to listen and to simply be there for her.

Although you might want to offer her advice, don't do so unless she asks for it. Many people who are first diagnosed suffer from information overload. Everyone they know is giving advice and information. It often get overwhelming.

There's nothing better than being a supportive, non-judgmental listener when she's ready to talk.

You can also help in very practical ways. Offer to go with her to doctors' appointments and treatments. Take notes so you can help her remember what was discussed.

And it's OK to ask her how you can help.

We've provided more suggestions in our newspaper columns written for family and friends.

Another resource is a National Cancer Institute publication, When someone you love is being treated for cancer.